As we go through life things often get very busy and the pile of things vying for our attention gets out of control. Between issues of responsibilities, relationships, time, plans and dreams, it can be just about impossible to manage everything. Then things start falling apart and our lives end up being controlled by everything else going on. We lose control and we eventually end up someplace we had no intention or desire of being in. God has given us guidelines to avoid that though.
Prov 18:24
Boundaries prevent chaos.